How Women Can Lose Weight After 40 (especially around the middle)

111000  Are you a woman over 40 and noticing it’s getting harder to lose weight?  Got some extra stubborn fluff and puff around the middle?  Maybe you’re finding that the diets you did in your 20’s or 30’s don’t work as fast as they used to or don’t even work at all!  If you’re already well past 40, chances are you’ve found it’s harder to lose weight.  And, those inches around your waistline won’t budge. Yes ladies, “Middle Age Spread” is a real thing.  Now before you click the little “x” on your browser to close this page and curse my name in disgust, sit tight.  First, I’m going to lay out the facts of why this happens to most women.  Then, I’m going to give you some action steps you can take to start losing weight again! Why the Weight Creeps On and On   Hormones. Ok, no big surprise here.  During perimenopause, our estrogen and testosterone levels start to drop.  By menopause, they plummet.  This is probably why approximately 30% of women between 50 and 59 are obese.  http://www.womenshealth.northwestern.edu/blog/menopause-and-weight-gain There appears to be a connection between estrogen and body weight regulation.  With lower estrogen levels, lab animals tend to eat more and be less physically active.  http://www.womenshealth.northwestern.edu/blog/menopause-and-weight-gain Levels that are too high or too low appear to lead to fat storage.  And, lower estrogen levels may also slow down your metabolic rate (the speed  at your body converts stored energy into working energy).   Being Less Active.  Many of us just slow down with age and exercise less.  This is just bad all around.  This is true for both men and women. ...

Why You’ll Feel Better When You Eat Less or Give Up Meat

001110Ask anybody who tries to be PC what their party affiliation is and they’ll say, “’Well, I really don’t like to label myself…”  Ok, understandable.  Wearing labels makes it easier to judge each other politically and socially.  That is why so many people shy away from wearing one.  But when it comes to what we eat, many of us proudly broadcast self-identifying labels like:  Vegan, Vegetarian, Pescatarian, Plant Based, Locavore, Paleo, and now there is a new one, “Reducetarian.”  Those who have joined the movement, pledge to consume at least 10%-30% less animal products in their daily lives (primarily meat, but also dairy and eggs).  China is all over this concept with their health ministry recommending everyone cut their meat consumption by 50%. According to Brian Kateman who started the Reducetarian movement (see his TED Talk here), most people dislike factory farming practices, (we’ve all seen at least one video of farm animals being tortured and brutalized).  Nobody with an ounce of compassion votes for animals to be treated this way, not even if they’re someday going to be food.  Kateman explains that if everyone were to start eating more fruits and veggies and less meat and animal products, more animals would be spared a horrendous fate.  Even if you don’t have a soft spot for animals, reducing your consumption of animal products can help the environment in several important ways.  More on that shortly.  Kateman sees being a Reducetarian as a way for people to take a step towards helping these issues without having to go completely plant based.  Instead of taking an all or nothing approach, he...
What Women Need To Know About Yoga After 50

What Women Need To Know About Yoga After 50

000000 Yoga is hotter than ever, and I’m not just referring to the type you do in a sweltering room, packed in like a sardine. I’ve written a lot about fitness trends over the years and yoga seems to be one fitness trend that never loses traction. PIXABYyoga after 50 But I’m loathe to use the word “trend” since it conjures the thought of something that will eventually reach its peak. I don’t think that will ever happen with Yoga. Here’s my reasoning. Have you ever heard someone say, “I need to do less yoga?” Probably not. On the other hand, how many times have you heard someone say, “I need to do more yoga,” or “I need to start doing yoga.” There’s one group in particular that yoga can thank for its unflagging popularity. According to the 2016 Yoga in America study, nearly 38% of yoga practitioners are over the age of 50. The practice of yoga tends to take on a different focus for many women after 50. Baby boomers in particular, are more interested in taking ownership of their health and ageing rather than being able nail a perfect crow pose to handstand. For these empowered women, it’s also less about having a perkier butt in a pair of Alō Moto leggings and more about celebrating health, joy, and natural beauty. If you’re considering whether to embark on a yoga journey, the right answer is yes, do it! From boomers to millennials and athletes to novice exercisers, there’s a style that’s a fit for pretty much everyone. If you’re already a seasoned yogi, your body may...
This Body.  The Raw Truth About It.

This Body. The Raw Truth About It.

000101I don’t normally post selfies on my blog.  I save the occasional selfie for Facebook or Instagram.  But as I’m facing some personal hurdles and pondering the path of my life’s mission, I found myself staring in the mirror… a lot more lately.  Usually in my underwear (not the Victoria Secret’s kind, but the kind you wear under a t-shirt or workout gear). This started about 2 1/2 years ago.  I’m not sure if it was to boost my self-esteem or to self-scrutinize this body who’s main vocation and avocation have been teaching fitness for well over 20 years.   But there I was looking in the mirror, staring at this body that has put in years of hard work, pain and sacrifice. “For what?” I keep asking myself.  “Was it worth it?” I wonder.  If only you knew what I’ve given up just to look in the mirror and say, “not bad… but there’s still room for improvement.” Fitness for me became an obsession and an addiction (it could’ve been worse, right?).  It wasn’t always that way though.  I used to play music (bass guitar), go to clubs to see great bands and hang out ’til sunrise with my friends.  I never even intended to be a fitness professional for more than a couple of years as a side hustle and for the fun of it.  My plan was to follow my degree in Media.  You know how to make God laugh?  Tell him your plans!  I worked in video production and TV news and loved it.  But the obsession with fitness won out (just like addictions often do).  And...
Gluten Free, Mostly Paleo Pancakes with Healthy Granola

Gluten Free, Mostly Paleo Pancakes with Healthy Granola

000000I love granola but, in the middle of winter, a cold bowl of oats isn’t exactly what I crave when I’m waiting for my house to heat up in the morning.  One day I decided to make Paleo Pancakes because they’re so simple and I wanted something warm.  If you’ve never made them, they are basically  just an egg and a ripe banana mixed together with 2 tbsp of coconut flour and less than a tsp of baking powder.  Blend and  and poured onto a hot coated skillet.  I know they’re not pretty.  I never claimed to be a chef.  I’m just a “cook”! First Attempt at Gluten Free / Paleo Pancakes   Then I wanted to mix toasty, warm pancakes with some tasty granola.  The healthiest brand I’ve found so far is Viki’s Granola.  I met her at the huuuuge Expo West convention in Anaheim last year.  I loved that her granola was lower in sugar and carbs an higher in protein and fiber than many other brands I’ve tried.       So, I simply added a tablespoon of granola to the pancakes after I put them in the pan.  I guess I could have stirred them into the mix, but this way, I could put in different flavors 😉! Second attempt:  Not Quite Paleo Pancakes If you’re a Paleo purist and avoid all grains like the Zika virus, then you’ll have to stick with the less tasty and crunchy version.  If you enjoy whole grains like I do, mix your batter up: 1 ripe banana 1 egg 2 – 3 tbsps coconut flour 1  tsp baking powder...

Are You in Love With a Narcissist?

000000I’m thrilled to be part of the Broad.Life team where I’ll be sharing my expertise on the topics of health, fitness and wellness.  Although I’m not a psychologist, narcissism and living with them is a topic I’m all too familiar with.  My mom was a pretty textbook case.  My maternal grandparents, who also brought me up, had many of the traits as well.  Ergo, my understanding of healthy relationships was pretty eff’d up!  I’ve read a lot of psychology articles on narcissism and had my fair dose of therapy.  Here’s what I’ve learned about narcissism in a post I wrote for the Broad.Life. What is a narcissist? Remember the story of Narcissus, the hunter who fell so in love with his refection in a pool he couldn’t tear himself away and eventually died (of starvation, I assume)? If you don’t remember that story from Greek mythology, just go to Facebook or Instagram and see who has the most daily selfies and updates. Or turn on most any reality show and you’ll get the concept of narcissism. Why is it bad to be a narcissist? Self-love, confidence and charm are all aspirational characteristics. But, an inflated sense of importance, an insatiable need for admiration and a lack of empathy are signs of possible trouble. Narcissism is a personality disorder that can have deleterious effects on your personal life, work and finances. Like all personality disorders, there are levels of severity. While everyone can be self-centered, callous, dismissive and even a little arrogant at times, severe narcissists present these traits persistently. And they set the bar when it comes to double standards....